The Transformative Power of Volunteerism with Hekmat Bessio

 

In the vibrant tapestry of human existence, each individual carries a profound story, often unnoticed but brimming with wisdom and resilience. Hekmat Bessio, a Palestinian mother, a giver, and a devout advocate of volunteerism, embodies the spirit of giving and stewardship. Hekmat can often be found volunteering at Community Nights or connecting with other volunteer opportunities through the HandsOn website. We sat down with Hekmat as she shared the transformative potential of volunteerism as a tool for personal growth and community dedication.

Hekmat's upbringing instilled in her a deep-rooted sense of responsibility towards others. She reflects, "It's hardly in Palestine to hear 'it's not my business.' Everything on the earth, it's your business. As much as you put it, your business. When you make it your business you will be an amazing person, a lovely person, a giver.” This ethos of collective responsibility, deeply ingrained in her culture, resonates in her commitment to serve and uplift her community, wherever she may be. Although she has been in Asheville for less than a year, her dedication and love of the city is palpable.

 

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Volunteerism, for Hekmat, transcends mere altruism; it is a profound act of preserving humanity's most precious asset—the smile.

"I love to teach people how to save their smiles," she asserts, emphasizing the transformative power of a genuine smile in fostering connection and empathy. Through volunteer work, Hekmat champions the notion of self-respect and dignity, transcending monetary rewards for the priceless currency of respect and admiration.

Community nights and volunteering in schools serve as gateways to understanding and embracing our Asheville and Buncombe community. Hekmat's involvement in these initiatives underscores her belief in the transformative potential of small acts of kindness. "Each person you meet, they have the right to see you smile," she affirms, highlighting the universal language of compassion that binds us all.

Despite the personal challenges of relocating to the United States less than a year ago and an ongoing war, Hekmat finds solace and purpose in serving others.

 

"My situation is sometimes complicated. I could cry for hours," she shares. "But when you do voluntary work, you are out of this zone. And so it saves your hours from being wasted and you make your pain less and the other people's pain less. Because by volunteering you solve other people's problems. So it's magic.” Volunteerism becomes a safe haven for her—a transformative force that not only alleviates her pain but also kindles hope and resilience in others.

Hekmat's journey is emblematic of the symbiotic relationship between individual stewardship and community resilience. Drawing inspiration from Sufi philosophy, she embodies the ethos of ownership through love and service. "Any land you walk, you own it, it's yours. If I own Asheville. Yeah, it's all the land. It's in my name. Yes, not on paper. Yes, in soul. Yes. In your heart. In my heart. Love is why I own it. So, I need to do something about it. When I do something for it, the land itself will reflect to me. We will have less accidents, less troubles, less locks, and closed doors. The doors will open because everything is listening to you. The trees, the earth, the birds, the animals, everything. Every, every single issue. And the Earth is watching you and has a relationship with you," she articulates. Asheville, her adopted home, becomes a canvas for her love and devotion—a reciprocal relationship of nurturing and being nurtured.

Beyond its immediate impact on the community, volunteerism serves as a profound catalyst for personal growth and learning. Hekmat likens volunteerism to a seed, stating, "Volunteering is like the seed of anything. You put it in and you keep watering it." This analogy underscores the long-term ripple effects of even the smallest acts of kindness. Like a seed, volunteerism germinates, nurturing not only individuals but entire communities.

Moreover, volunteerism offers invaluable lessons that transcend monetary compensation.

As Hekmat aptly observes, "When you work you have a salary. But with voluntary work, there is no monetary salary. It's that the respect for yourself, it's higher." In giving selflessly of one's time, energy, and ideas, individuals cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth and garner respect from their peers. In the absence of monetary incentives, the purity of volunteerism shines through, fostering genuine connections and a shared commitment to collective well-being.

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Through volunteerism, individuals gain firsthand insights into the diversity of humanity. Each interaction becomes an opportunity for empathy and understanding, enriching both the giver and the receiver. As Hekmat notes, "You learn a lot about the others and you learn what kind of ideas you can provide to help and to improve this kind of work." Volunteering becomes a journey of self-discovery—a transformative experience that fosters empathy, resilience, and a deeper appreciation for the interconnectedness of all beings.

Volunteerism transcends boundaries and transforms lives. It is a catalyst for personal growth, community resilience, and societal harmony. As we heed Hekmat's call to action, let us embrace volunteerism as a pathway to self-discovery, empathy, and collective prosperity..

 

Volunteering is not merely a duty but a privilege—a sacred opportunity to steward the land and communities we inhabit. "The mountain is full of wise messages, love, inspiration," Hekmat reflects. "This country and this city deserve to be saved and hugged." Through our collective efforts, guided by love and compassion, we can cultivate communities where every individual thrives, and every smile shines bright.

 

 

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